In Late-Career Pivots, 3 Traits Successful Career Changers Share
Caroline Ceniza-Levine Senior Contributor
I help people make a great living doing work they love.
If you have 20 or more years invested in one line of work, you have a specific set of skills and expertise, which you might think doesn’t translate elsewhere. Besides, people know you for being in a particular industry and/or role, and your own network is more likely stocked with people from the field you want to leave. Finally, you have less time in the latter arc of your career to make a change. Is it ever too late to pivot your career?
I once coached a marketing executive who had 20 years in financial services before landing a top operations job for a retirement community. Vickey Barron, currently a top New York City real estate agent, spent 20 years in health care on the West Coast. Dr, Regina Lark was 50 years old and laid off from a job in academia, when she pivoted to building, A Clear Path, a professional organization business that now has 13 employees and seven figures in revenue.
Collection of Research on Japanese War Brides
Now at Japanese American National Museum
October 23, 2023 – LOS ANGELES – The Japanese American National Museum (JANM) has received a donation from Dr. Regina Lark of her collection of interviews from her University of Southern California dissertation. Her dissertation focused on the relationships between Japanese women and American soldiers who met and married during the US Occupation of Japan.
How to end the unfairness of invisible work
Years ago during an offsite, a white male colleague remarked that he didn’t have time to manage his employees to the extent they needed managing.
“You must realize that has a spillover effect on the rest of us,” I said. “Your team ends up seeking other leaders to help them navigate this place—and to better understand you.”
So-called invisible work—a term coined by sociologist Arlene Kaplan Daniels to describe work that goes unpaid, unacknowledged, and thus, unregulated—abounds in the workplace, especially when we look back on our careers in hindsight. Once you know, you cannot stop seeing such labor everywhere. It’s especially egregious for women and people of color, who pick up the slack for organizations that come to rest greatly on our efforts.
Recognize the labor
One of the first steps in fixing the problem of invisible work is to, well, make it visible. Regina Lark’s recent TED talk implores us to stop calling anything “women’s” work. “Work is work,” she says. In an interview with me, she offered this checklist with examples of how women and people of color take on extra burdens:
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Keep Fighting With Your Partner About Chores? Here’s What To Do About It
…The problem of household labor—and the emotional labor that comes with it
According to Regina Lark, Ph.D., organization expert and author of Emotional Labor: Why a Woman’s Work Is Never Done and What To Do About It, chores can become a source of conflict in relationships for a number of reasons.
For one thing, especially if you’re in a cis-het relationship, traditional gender roles around “women’s work” are still incredibly pervasive, with many of us subconsciously holding a belief that it’s the woman’s job in the relationship to manage the household—cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, keeping track of everyone’s calendars, the list goes on…and on and on. Read more…
Dr. Regina Lark is a professional speaker and entrepreneur who holds a Ph.D in Women’s History from the University of Southern California. Her work in that field informs her third and most recent book, “Emotional Labor: Why a Woman’s Work Is Never Done and What to Do About It.” Read more…
There’s No Such Thing as ‘Women’s Work’
8/31/2023 by REGINA LARK
“There’s nothing inherently ‘womanly’ about ‘women’s work.’ Work is work, whether it’s done in the office or the home.”
When it comes to gender equity at home, many households are depressingly unequal. We raise the bar of household equity in three ways:
- by making visible, the invisible work of emotional labor.
- by anticipating the emotional labor lifecycle.
- by embracing the art and practice of radical delegation.
When we commit to these ideals, men will recognize their full potential in the household, and women will realize their full potential in the paid workplace. Read more…
The One Conversation That Always Turns Into A Fight (& How To Make Peace)
Radical relationship problems demand radical solutions.
By Regina Lark, Ph.D. — Written on Apr 12, 2023
In my career as a professional organizer, I am privy to the ways married couples speak and think differently from each other regarding the arduous work of what I like to call, “household management”. The type that some people might call “women’s work” — which is based on the historical myth that “women are just better at it.” Read more…
My Beauty Collection Needed an Intervention—Here’s How I Organized the Chaos
by MARIE LODI
September 29, 2022
I have an embarrassing confession: I’m extremely disorganized. And as someone who is a beauty editor and is constantly barraged with new skincare and makeup products, it can be a huge problem. Add in the fact that I have inattentive ADHD (disorganization can be a symptom of the disorder), and the concept of keeping things organized is a true struggle. Even before I wrote about beauty, I wasn’t the best at keeping my then-small collection in an orderly fashion. (My childhood Caboodle case was always a chaotic scene with Bonne Bell Lip Smackers all over the place.) Read more…
How to Conquer Chaos in Your New Business You have a skill, and want to turn it into a company. Here’s what you need to do
If there’s anything you can be sure of in life and business, it’s that you must expect the unexpected. Sometimes, great things can come from the surprises life throws at us.
Dr. Regina Lark knows this lesson well. Before founding her firm, A Clear Path, Regina was immersed in higher education. But when budget cuts eliminated her position at UCLA, Regina found herself starting over at age 50, during the economic recession in 2008. Read more…
WORKING WITH PEOPLE WHO HOARD*
For the Professional Fiduciary, from a Hoarding
Clear-Out Specialist (Part 1 of 2)
If you have worked as a Fiduciary for any length of time, chances are good that you’ve walked into a hoarded house. Shoulder against the front door, you push hard to gain access, and once inside, as your eyes adjust to the diminished light, you greet your client with a hearty “Hello! I’m here!” and you begin your initial assessment that begins with the thought, “Oy! What a mess!”
Destination: LA — Episode 4 Airing!
Local CBS, IGTV, and Amazon Prime on the following dates:
- KCAL CH. 9 (CBS – LA): 11/28/2020 at 5:00pm
- IGTV: Week of 12/5/2020
- Amazon Prime and Client Footage Delivery: Week of 12/12/2020
- KCBS CH. 2 (CBS – LA): December date TBD.
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“Dr. Regina Lark is not only an entertaining speaker, but extremely informative as well. Regina shares vulnerabilities in addition to just speaking on facts and data by providing real stories thereby fully engaging her audience. I have had the pleasure of hearing her speak on multiple occasions, and her passion and knowledge of the material she shares becomes immediately evident. Her speaking style is organized, yet lively and energetic. Through her presentation her excitement, enthusiasm and belief in her subject matter shines bright.”
— Maria Lubrano